miss devine is spending a night at my house tonight

tonight i am playing host to miss devine.
i was at first cautions because it is a friends child - it is totally different when the child is your relative - you kind of accept it that is is part of family territory - anyways so i will play host to the lovely miss devine.
she is fast asleep and looks sooo peaceful - she was ok when we went shopping, was very chatty during the drive and she came home and i reckon its her first time away from her mum, it took a while for her to settle - and cos she recognised my face i guess she was a bit settled - but would cry when given to my mum - she has been bathed and fed and has cried a wee bit - i think this is her routine for sleep - a bit of crying - so i caried her on my back, like my mum used to do for me and she soon settled to sleep.

it is quite interesting you knwo - i always have a respect for mothers because i know their job is not easy - i had to cook for her and i had to bathe her and most importantly i had to say my prayers - i just backed her and carried on my normal business - with exception for prayer at that point i had to let her sit on her own while i had to do what i had to do..

this brings me to the topic for now - with mothers who have demanding young children - i guess its a balance of their time and their obligations - i would not think any child will hold me to ransome nor would i think i would allow my child to do that as well, its about how you train the child from young, the routine you get the child into - some mothers soon enough forget their obligations once the child has arrive - because the child is too much of a handfull to deal with - i pray to god that i am never like that but rather - help me to remember my obligations and to observe them -

they cant go to the toilet w/o the child screaming they cant pray without the child crying, and they are held to ransome by the child, - obviously a servant /family members will help with the child and makes life easier- but spare a thought for those who dont have anyone...

so my though is for such people, who raise a child alone with no help from family or husband or servant - i commend you people - and i pray that the good Lord makes your burden lighter,

if some of you know me, i have free time which can be booked and i dont mind helping out at all - to give you a breather and some Me time..