parent - children

was having an interesting conversation with my mum today.......
parents and children - this relationship at the best of times is testy....

it then dawned on me and as i told her . in any situation, there are 3 ways to look at it.
there is the way i look at it, then there is the way you will look at it , then ultimately there is the truth about the whole situation.

The mind is prone to amplification and emotion prone to reacting and forming judgement..
parents dont know all, they just know what they know and they do what they think best at that point given the situation they are in.
in any situation everyone would take action to do what they think to be the best thing, given the circumstaces they are faced with and the resources they have at their dispisal - wether that action was in actual fact right or wrong depends on who is looking at it and what their views are.... but in actual fact only time will tell if the acton was indeed right.

like i said before, i have no choice i love my parents however some actions they may have taken i may not agree with, but i cannot blame or judge them becuase if i were in their shoes, i may do the same thing or do worse than they did or even do better.... May God guide us to the straight path....