Divorce and Marriage

today i got some news which shocked me to the core.
someone i had the lovely pleasure of knowing anounced that she had divorced her husband.

this upset me because, i look up to this lovely woman, as an embodiment of womanhood, she is lovely, well spoken, her mannerisms gentle and aboove all she speaks with conviction and is not afraid to state things as she sees it.. i feel she tries to be fair in all situation and considers both sides then makes her mind on her decisions...

it seems her husband as he did not believe the same as her..( my views entirely)

when i read the email i was shocked, and the first thought to mind was - do not break up existing mariages...

this is an unclear area... but on a one scale i undestand that if you meet someone and you have been married and somewhere along the line one of you finds a path that is different, that does not necessarily mean that you have to split with the person does it? because the marriage has already started before finding the path, i guess its compromise and tolerance that has to be worked out btw both parties.. look at Pharoahs wife fo instance - "Create for me a place with you in paradise" my version but the correct reference is 66:11 - her husband was a disbeliever but pharoahs wife i reckon was not..
God knows everything, but i am sad anyways.. and i though all that worry and contemplation she must have been going through, God knows what is best i know for sure nd God willing everything will be ok

this is a tricky situation that needs careful analysis... marriage by any means is not to be taken lightly and with the same respect divorce is not to be taken lightly as well..

then i look at myself and my situation and i go, if my closest and dearest cant make it work, will i too.. God knows the future but i seeks Gods protection, guidance, direction and inspiration to help me the best that i can be, for us to be the best that we can be, in service to God alone..